in these past 9 months he's scheduled visitation and failed to show.

let holidays pass not asking to visit or how daughter was.

he's very inconsistent with visitation, he'll do good for about 2 -3 days then gets lazy, oh i can go do this, i can sleep, i overslept, i got busy. many excuses.

i've tried explaining the children need consistent regular visitation on a routine with schedule is best but falls on deaf ears

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline