Hi Soleil, thanks for your comments and that little conversation about telling her to move out if she wants probably changed our dynamic and improved our communication prob better than anything else I have done.
Another thing I am not sure how to handle is sleeping in the same bed. Is this good or bad ? . We still share a bed even though we have no physical contact. I don't really care one way or the other and am just wondering which is best for DBing. Just seems a little strange to be living separate lives but sleeping in the same bed.
A lot of times i will already be in bed when she comes in so its definitely not a case of me climbing in beside her or forcing her out.
Also need to figure out how to discuss the conflict with her and my S without discussing our R.
