W and I have been emailing each other all day about the bank issue with the house. We need to make some decisions regarding the bank with the looming foreclosure. Question I wanted to throw out and ask for opinions. We have to file our taxes and she had indiated last week she would file jointly if we signed an agreement on how the tax return would be handled. My question is should I mentiion this today that I think we should also sign that agreement so we can file or is this too much to put on her today?
tell her you want to file separately. what reason do you have not to separate your finances?
Originally Posted By: mza8
Sometimes she really doesn't think before she speaks. In her latest email today she said she could ask her attorney (divorce) a question that we are trying to get answered about possible foreclosure. I am waiting for an attorney to call me back today that specializes in foreclosure law. W knows this. Why would she rub it in and mention she could ask her divorce attorney?
cause she wants to get divorced from you. hint. hint.
Originally Posted By: mza8
I feel like why should I do everything now that I bascially told her yesterday that I'm ok if this doesn't work between us.
Am I way off base with this thinking? I'm not trying to be controlling here, I'm really not. I just think that we need to have the right people answering our questions and that she should be helping.
this was on msn today
A recent study published in the Journal of Family Psychology suggests that for women, dating a less attractive man may result in a happier, more emotionally satisfying relationship.
Researchers from UCLA and the University of Tennessee gathered 82 couples in their mid-twenties who had married in the past year and had been together for almost three years prior, then filmed the couples discussing a personal problem. All the while, a panel of people evaluated who was the better looking individual in each pair. After analyzing the tapes, researchers discovered that in couples where the man was more attractive than the woman, he said often things such as, “This is your problem, you deal with it” whereas the unattractive hubbies were more apt to say things like, “I'm here for you — what do you want me to do? How can I help you?'"
I think you are way off base on the not dating thing and naive about the wife, whom you havent talked to in nine months, not going out on dates.
