Quote: live my life and hope that h doesn't get left behind...I just don't want to be one of those couples that go about their own business and simply live together and on occassion are h and w know what I mean?
LL, do you feel like that is how it is going now? How would H be left behind? Do you plan on shaking things up? Are you afraid to rock the boat? As a former lug, I can tell you that it does take a shock to the system to make one move.
I do recognize that you are living your life. It is good that you are going to your classes. Are you happy with your classes? Do you use classes as an escape? What do you want from life? For me, it is difficult to cut through some of this stuff.
I asked you before. What do your guts tell you? Do you feel deep down that things will get better or not? A counselor of mine said to me once, "be glad that things happened now rather than 10 years from now."
