I take little breaks from here but just can't stay away for too long. I still find that it helps to try to help others even when I don't have any questions with my own sitch. Know what I mean?
I, too hope that the L will help you out. You really NEED legal representation at a time like this. You can't go it alone.
I do continue to follow along and am proud of the way you are dealing with everything. Your kids must know what a great dad you are. I know they are the most important thing in the world to you. Continue to do what's best for you and for them. If you do that, everything else will fall into place.
Continued prayers.
BTW, I know exactly what you mean when you see a glimpse of your "old" W. The same feeling comes over me. I would love to just take her in my arms and tell her this is all in the past and we can move on. Of course, it never lasts more than an hour or an evening at the most. Usually the alien is back within minutes. Still, seeing what used to be is hard. It's easier for us when they are in full-time bitch mode. At least we both know not to expect it to last. Just a sad reminder of what could be if she would let it.
At least we both know not to expect it to last. Just a sad reminder of what could be if she would let it.