I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[newmama]

OK Romeo...I must adopt a "drug dealer" mentality, lol! Well that is why I am going out with Rugby tomorrow night. I mean not JUST because of that reason, but because over the weekend I honestly thought "hmm...wonder if there will be sparks with Rugby? Will he like me when he meets me? Can I handle dating him at the same time as zoobrew?" and then when he didn't call I thought "so did he meet someone else? wait a minute...."

So I called him up and he definitely had a "tone" to his voice, like he was suspicious or hurt or resentful of the fact that I didn't call him in time for Tuesday! If he had called me, I would have gone out with him but since he didn't, I didn't make an attempt. He said at one point
"And on Tuesday night, I was HOPING TO HAVE QUALITY TIME WITH NEWMAMA...but I DIDN'T..." So I couldn't help but say "well I will make it up to you on Thursday!" but you know what? It kinda bugged me that he was like that...why not just call me then? And I don't owe him anything...we have only talked on the phone!

From our other conversations, I can feel his "warmth" over the phone so it makes me a little nervous about him wanting to get too close too soon. Just wondering if zoobrew acted similarly if it would cool my jets for him?



Yes, not just me, but EVERY FRIEND I HAVE has had a one nighter! And these are ladies who are currently married, or in long term relationships. So one nighters are not just done by "hussies!"
But I can't have a one nighter anymore, I don't think. To me, a "fling" means a series of dates where sex is involved.

NOW, in a relationship with someone, we definitely need the emotional stuff to maintain our sexual desire for our man!


So if the woman patted your arm,it does depend on context. Was she also darting her eyes, cocking her head,playing with her hair, or looking at your mouth? those are signs of interest!