I will say my H says there is no justification in what he did, but then he also says to me that I don't understand how things were to make it happen. Huh??? Does that make sense to you? I knwo what happened-she was after him for years and he finally caved because she made him feel so important. He finally did realize he didn't really want her, but he did like the feeling she gave him. God.....it just goes on and on. Rachael