Just an update. Last weekend H asked D13 again if she liked my boyfriend and once again she said, Mom doesn't have a boyfriend. And if you are talking about the guy that opened the pool for us that is Uncle J's best friend and he is married and has 4 kids. He is just trying to help us Daddy.
A friend ran into H and sad that H doesn't look good or sound good. Sounds very sad, but was trying to put a front on. So I guess this friend said something (I can't remember) and H's response was I haven't heard anything in a month and 1/2. That would be from me. I haven't texted him or called about anything.
So what happens a few days later? The lawnmower breaks and I have no clue how or what to do since H took care of all of that stuff also. So our D13 was with him and when she called me I asked her to ask him where do I go to get it fixed.
She said he was nice about it and said Sears. That was on a Saturday. On that Monday I didn't know if I had to take the whole thing or just the part, so figured I would text him since he made the remark to the friend and ask if I just take the part that broke to Sears or the whole thing.
He never responded. So I gave it till the following day and texted him and said never mind. I give up. You don't have to worry about it again. Take care.
Do I feel like a fool. So 2 days later, our D13 comes home from a friend's house that she stayed at for 2 days after she left her father's and said that H had told her to tell me that I need to take the whole thing to Sears.
So I texted him again and told him I was sorry for bothering him about the lawn mower. And that D13 just told me about you telling her that I needed to take the whole thing. I explained that she slept over her girlfriend's house after he dropped her off there and thats why I didn't know what to do. So I asked someone at work. What a kid we have.
I've been detaching and doing the NC thing but the friend said it seemed to her that he was upset cause I wasn't texting or anything and that he really needs help and he needs to talk to someone. And that he is just out and out sad and doesn't like his life at all.
I guess the friend was wrong, cause he doesn't respond to anything.
But now I have a problem, that I have to text and could use some advice on how to word it. It seems that when I don't contact him for a while he doesn't pay the only bill that he is helping with as far as all the bills in both of our names go.
I didn't contact him in April into May so he doesn't pay his part which is less than half, then when I did contact him in June about our D13 being sick. The post is up above. He paid it on time. Now this month here we go again, didn't pay it and it is late.
Thanks for any input or advice on how to text him about the loan.
