My heart goes out to all you guys. I understand how difficult it is as I am going through it all too.
LSG, are you just using your wife's attorney? I wouldn't recommend that. I know funds are scarce, but the court may make her pay your atty fees since you don't have a job. You'd better think long and hard about this. Unless you and she can agree on the terms on your own and you think it is fair, I wouldn't do it. DO NOT let her take advantage of you. Know your rights and what you are entitled to. She may have to pay both child support and spousal support to you until you can find a job. Don't let that slide.
