The conversation bw OM and his mom. Her side was all that could be recovered.
Originally Posted By: OM's mom
hi X. i had a long texting session with 'stbxw name' last night. i wondered why you deleted her from messaging. she said that proved you were guilty. phone me if you want to know what i said. i know this stresses you out but if you just explain that you are just friends with (CD's W) and that you want to get on with our life. let her ask you questions then delete her.
Message 16 of 34 X, (OM W) text me. i explained some what happened. where (CD W) stayed and where you stayed (ok resort and friend Z). i told her you went seadooing with (CD W) and her cousin but that you were just friends.
Message 17 of 34
so you actually went to (beach town) to spend time with (CD W). where does (friend Z) come into the picture. its seems like you are moving fairly quickly with a relationship.
you just got separated you need to heal. im happy she makes you happy. you have to learn to manage your life (i explain what i mean when you get home). im on your side. dont forget to read the clean rules for you exit. where are you going tomorrow.
Message 18 of 34
you didnt answer my question. are you on the same flight as (CD W). if her husband is this upset, he will probably be at the airport when you arrive.
Message 24 of 34
i just want you to to slow down until (CD W) gets separated. you dont want to hurt her chances of having custody of her child or make her husband act anymore irrational. mum has had a lot of experience in my life to know that this not the time to persue her. her separation is a lot more complicated than yours. dad wants to know how much gas is in the truck. hes lending (OM bro) the truck for sat and sun.
Message 25 of 34
ooow that sounds bad. what do (CD W's) parents think about you. do they know you are interested in her. do they know her situation with her husband.
keep your distance until this over. if you truly care about each other you can wait. be careful about not losing your cool at work tomorrow our you might be changing jobs. you need to finish school before you make any moves.
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