Well LL, are ya gonna stick it out? It sounds like your damn mad and you have every reason to be. Sorry, but I don't agreee with stuffing your anger when they do something like this. They HAVE to know you won't stand for it. Tell him how you feel and get it off your shoulders. The thing is it doesn't help to keep putting it in front of them after that. Not that you do, I don't know. I know what you mean that you H acts happier around other people. My H does that too, but so do I. I think part of it is a front, part of it is we've stopped relating to one another. I want to talk to him and he say he CAN'T talk to me. I say BULL to that. I am willing to listen anytime. We are trying to work through this but he makes everything harder than it has to be. He really screwed everything up. Rachael