NM, you should start a new thread 'Confessions of a free woman as she takes on the dating game'
So I got a patted on my arm a couple of times by a woman recently but we're always told to keep our hands to ourselves unless there's a clear green light. We're always getting rejected you know so most of us are guarded. Some guys though have the mentality 'so what? the more you get rejected the higher the chances of succeeding next time'. So it could've been that? Besides how often do women really initiate that kind of stuff so to me that's a special treat like- wow, she's a BITCH - babe in total control of herself that is Kind of a turn on.
But now...you have to get him back! don't initiate everytime! you have to think and act like a drug dealer (no personal experience I assure you lol). You gave him his fix now let him come back for more.
A fling eh? hey so what's up with the one night stands anyway? there goes my whole theory about women wanting the emotional connection before the physical stuff. I'm not complaining because I'm sure it's making a lot of guys happy somewhere lol
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again