Cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it

[ImprovedRomeo]

Sol, yeah it's funny how we 'put up' with so much over the years and slowly start to realize that how we idealized our spouses first they weren't really all that. A lot of people say it's for the better that they called it quits so we can find a more suitable match. Yet I still have a problem with that because I believe in putting our selfishness aside and doing things to make our spouses (and in turn us) happy and if we can't do that then at least raise the kids so they're mature enough to understand and not be so hurt by this.

Yeah she's not very affectionate but maybe I was looking for a motherly type of a role from my wife? I don't know I guess there could've been a balance between total coldness and too much affection...

Anyway so yes physical touch to me and probably most men is very important it's how we express our love. That and if you can make us feel we're the best guy you've ever had (not just in bed) that's all we ask for. Like if I even screwed a light bulb on and you said 'honey, you're the man!' and on the surface I might say 'aw that was nothing' but inside I'd be like 'I am the man and she loves me!'. There you have it, a guy summarized in two sentences. And a clean house, kids and meals every now and then would be the icing on the cake! LOL

So I emailed stbxw last night to see if she could bring DD to the doc because on Sun I noticed she had a swelling on one of her fingers as if a splinter's logged in and the skin's trying to reject it. She wouldn't let me examine it and said last week mommy told her she'd bring her to the doc. I work 60 miles away so it's hard as is for me to drop DD to school and make it to work on time. Anyway so stbxw said she 'should be able to'. Haven't heard anything, I guess I'll have to ask what the doc said or wait till I pick DD up from school tonight to ask her about it.

I got the information packet from the private school last night I guess they had my address since we applied for her to join the school almost a year ago. Anyway, I scanned the pages and was going to email it to stbxw.

I still have to email her about the other crap since the L still hasn't gotten back to me. Like what the heck am I paying you guys for? answering a simple insurance quesiton can't be that hard.

Oh and girl 3 just left this greeting on my meetup group profile:

"Hi. I am glad that we walked together back to our cars from the beach. Thanks"

wow...I haven't gotten this much attention for so long. I mean it was really no big deal we were both parked on the same street. Who's complaining though, not me! lol