isn't it amazing how fast trust is thrown out the window. I've done nothing in our 18 yrs together for her to have any concerns but she is all about hiding everything now. I asked for simple info, that I should have had access to anyway, her pay stub (I know I should have gotten it before now) she asks why do I need it. Answer, it is just part of this process and that's that.
She accused me of locking her cell phone account and digging through her purse this morning. I've done neither.
I guess this would be considered normal since she is trying to distance herself from me. I actually don't care (at least not right now - this seems to fade every so often and I have to catch myself) that she is mad at me, but this is what she wants and I REALLY fell like telling her that when she starts this kind of CB.