I see you're passionate about this point; I get it, and I am too. I am writing for if there's anyone out there like me only in a more vulnerable spot (like I was back at bomb-time).
Your advice works almost all of the time. But in some cases, it may just be better to 2B right away. I think it was better for me. I'm glad that I didn't become a PI. And my marriage *might* be 'saved'!
Now when WH and I are in MC, I might learn of infidelities. But I'd much rather hear it from him than snoop it out myself.
My way isn't for everyone. I think folks should think it through and go with their gut.
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
