Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

W emailed me this morning. Said, "Thank you mza8 for your kind message last night on the phone". She then said she is working on getting the paperwork (agreement) finalized for me listing the house. She said the previous version she had drafted was more inclusive and she needed to have it changed. Said she would be in touch in the next day or so and we can figure out our plan. She signed it Thank you, W. I'm guessing she had things in the original agreement that she has decided to remove now.

I sent her a quick email reply letting her know some information about bank that she needed to know. I told her whenever she has the paperwork finished is fine. That was it.

Rob, yes, for me dating isn't an option. She's not dating so I don't want to either. That's just it, saying to do the right thing. Well, for me this is the right thing. I'm not sure I would want my possible dating to be the "thing" that would bring her back. Why should it have to come to that? I don't know, just my thoughts. Yes, maybe this means I wouldn't have tried everything. I understand what you and Gucci are saying though.

I agree with you that right now I need to take a break from thinking about this. I have been out GAL, hanging with friends, exercising, working on the house, etc. I'm going to watch a the MLS game tonight with a bunch of friends tonight at a bar where a friend of mine works. Having lunch tomorrow with another buddy of mine. Refereeing soccer games this weekend again. Playing soccer 5 times per week. Hanging out with friends again this weekend, church, gym, etc. I'm definitely doing things but I do need to stop focusing so much on my W right now.


You're right again Rob that my W has been all I've been able to think about. Maybe my message to her yesterday was a good thing for both of us. She didn't mention anything in her email today about counseling even though she told me last week she would go...for closure I'm sure, which I told her I was ok with. Perhaps she doesn't really want to go as much as she said. Anyway, I won't mention it to her again. I told her yesterday it was her choice and I would be fine either way.

Ok, I'm going to try to have some fun with friends this week and not think about W. Here goes...