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I think it's because their hearts have changed...they don't love enough to make it work


Yes they're convinced that we're the source of their unhappiness and that life will be better for them without us. And no matter how hard the life actually gets for them and for us they'll never let go of that belief...I know this from when stbxw left me last time and only came back after she got hurt big time.

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But in her mind, it was for the best.


This is what stbxw has said a few times in the past.

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But did she agree to counselling? NO.


same here wii...I suggested Retrovaille after our reconciliation she never showed any interest.

It did help wii, thanks.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again