I think they must have put their best foot forward for awhile and eventually slipped back into their "normal."
I bet every WAS would say the same thing.
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Were they that way in the beginning and we just didn't see it?
Pinhead just admitted he loves his wife differently than when they were dating/newlyweds.
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It is rather amazing how self-centered they are.
Maybe they are just looking out for their needs. Your WAS is not your enemy, they are another person who is hurt, confused, and searching for answers. They are not doing it the way the LBS wants. Until you can detach and look at your sitch like your are "looking into the fishbowl" and see your M for what it is in reality and the feelings that surround it then you remain stuck.
Blaming your WAS for how they feel doesn't work. Seek to understand how they feel and then the solutions appear. Compassion is what you need to see them.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
