Puppy, I also appreciate how you help those on this site. Your synopsis that began this thread is so easy to understand, and it will clarify a plan of action for many people.
But...
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
No, "independent" verification includes keylogger, voice-activated recorder, cellphone detailed billing invoices, looking at cellphone text message content, GPS on their car, etc.
I know this is an unpopular view, but I personally would think twice about using some of these intel methods. In some cases, I think it's better to just jump to 2B.
Reasons:
1) LBS becomes obsessive and spends a lot of time trying to find EA/PA which doesn't help detachment 2) LBS doesn't improve him/herself by ... what I see as 'lowering' oneself to invade the WAS' space
Yes, it's awful of the WAS to break trust first with infidelity, etc etc. But sometimes that doesn't justify the LBS going to the level as well.
That's my opinion, I know many of you disagree, but I want to throw it out there.
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.
