Actually she's taking our Ds to stay with their grandfather while she ruins all the couple's times for a quiet, relaxing weekend at the lake.

It's amazing to take off the blinders and see how she has to make everything about herself.

Last night, she kept saying "my girls are my #1 priority." I wanted to smack her and say "our girls" and that if they were her #1 priority, she'd at least have put some effort into working on our R. But being the good DB'er, I simply listened and validated, while inside I was just shaking my head at her.