As you've said, you've done all the exposing that is warrented in my book. Ironcially, (x)W and I got in to a long productive discussion about this last night. As I've said all along, OP's involved in the A are often the exact opposite of the LBS. Thus, in my case, OM was controlling of her and a lazy slug who did NOTHING.
As I told her last night, "I knew it wouldn't last, but I had to let you go to live that life you thought you wanted, and learn for yourself". And in the irony of it all, that made her relish everything I had ever done for her more, love me more, and pave the path for her back home.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11