DMB... your wife and you have to ERASE his memory frrom teh household.

If she is keeping old emails of his, gifts he may have sent,etc toss them out.

Monitor her internet activity so she keeps that to a minimum and does NOT go ANYWHERE that the two of them frequent. Any websites they "hid out at" online she has to steer clear from. Get on your network and monitor her activity.

I am giong to suggest for NOW that you ask questions here and give her time to get past withdrawal. Harassing her overmuch with questions that aren't necessary just brings him back into the forefront of her brain again...

Get her doing otehr logical things to get into her left brain...

Shut down facebook.. It is listed as THE MOST HIGHLY USED SOFTWARE PRODUCT to practice infidelity with...

I have seen about half dozen affairs that started with facebook on this fourm in the last few months alone...

Hundreds of affairs are launched by that damn website...

Shut her DOWN

Did she AND YOU send him a no contact letter insisting that he remove all memory of her from his computer and you BOTH SIGN at the bottom?


Last edited by Allen A; 07/28/10 11:47 AM.