That's not what I asked. I asked if you have verified that it's true that the house isn't already HALF YOURS.
Puppy
Sorry Puppy, Yes, according to my lawyer, it is half mine, however, my L also said that if this were to end in D, I cannot afford to buy my H and therefore I would have to move if he wants the house (my H would buy me out).
Originally Posted By: Allen A
ShellDoll do NOT take his calls...
He's worried is all.. He's scared and he wants to keep playing you like a piano... Once you STOP taking his calls he realizes he may NOT have control over the sitaution HE CREATED
He wants to keep playing BOTH for as LONG as he CAN...
Do NOT take his calls... He's stuck and you are fortunate enough to have time to plan here... do NOT RUIN that by taking his calls...
I know, I sounded weak and ONLY thought about taking his next call. I WILL NOT. I have to focus on me and I still have some resentment for what he has pout me through and I GAVE him all the POWER in this situation he caused. I am actually not feeling as anxious as I did a month ago when he wasn't calling as much. Work is keeping me busy at the moment which is probably a good thing, because I am never at my desk.
I will continue to stay dark from all things related to my H. He doesn't particulary have a close relationship with his family (his father and mother are both dead). He speaks to them maybe once every few months.
I know, he wants to keep me playing to his fiddle - I will just do for me now. I am going to draft a letter that I want to get your feedback on later.
Me 41/H 49 M 12yrs No Kids Bomb 1/10/2010 H Deployed The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison
