we seem to be going down the same path, I'm also SAHD, I think wife is having A but she's smart and has covered her tracks, and she is filing Friday..
She refuses to work on it and just says its over.
I still have hope, but some days it seems very unlikely that we will avoid D. I made mistakes and certainly could have treated her better by listeninig to her etc. but she has not respected me for along time and I fed off that.
anyway, I don't think it hurts to have hope, just don't dwell on it. We both have to focus on the kids and ourselves
