W and I had a court matter unrelated to the D. It started out with W wanting to talk about how we will divide the bank accounts and the credit cards on the way. I just said that the courts will decide these matters. She said that she wants to it be "diplomatic." I just said we will wait for the hearing to find out how diplomatic it will be.
after the court matter, we did talk more like we use to, and I did validate, and I did not argue about anything with her. I just listened to what she had to say. She asked if I knew where we where, and we had a decent time together. She did go to see our D and S at the church and said "hi" which she has not done before.
She said she is glad we both do not have attornies, and I told her that she could be glad about anything she wants to.
We had a nice dinner, and she bought me a soda.
She changed her attitude after she said she had something to do, and she was texting him in the bathroom again, so nothing has changed.
I had a little hope because I saw a glimmer of my W that I once adored and loved so much.
I have to follow through with the D. I do not know how to get her back to me. I still felt for the first time in a long time we could make it, but it quickly faded. It does not feel so good.
This was the first time we really talked to each other in months. Sadly, I believe we will not talk like this again.
It hurts me bad tonight! I will be okay.
ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010 www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1961097#Post1961097