Wife filed for divorce...Is there still hope?

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W and I had a court matter unrelated to the D. It started out with W wanting to talk about how we will divide the bank accounts and the credit cards on the way. I just said that the courts will decide these matters. She said that she wants to it be "diplomatic." I just said we will wait for the hearing to find out how diplomatic it will be.

after the court matter, we did talk more like we use to, and I did validate, and I did not argue about anything with her. I just listened to what she had to say. She asked if I knew where we where, and we had a decent time together. She did go to see our D and S at the church and said "hi" which she has not done before.