Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
Maybe someday I can meet somebody who actually likes me who values commitment, and I can put everything I have learned to good use.


Is it just me, I think there is something missing here.
I thought the ultimate reason we are DBing is to learn about having better R and communication in order to be successful in our future R--- whether it is our spouse or not.

Well, I think you're presented with the best chance to learn here with 'all this drama'?
To test and learn what and how she responds to what you do or say. What contributed to the down fall. Aren't some of the answers contained in that drama?
Without finding out if you just go onto the next, you might have a new set of dramas down the line... isn't that why we are here?