My wife had a conversation with my sister in-law tonight. She's a evangelical Christian who believes that wives should submit to their husbands. To say the least, that didn't go over well. Plus my W read some emails on my computer from my mom and now is convinced everyone in my family is "against" her.
She's very self centered and insecure.
Well from her point of view, she's 100% correct, everyone is against her. I know we turn to family & friends for support but when it comes to this stuff, I think it backfires, you get those people to support you, to be on your side and then what happens when the dust settles, say you guys actually reconciled and worked on repairing the damage that's been caused so far. She still has to concern herself with the pressure of everyone's opinion's and gossip on the situation, negative thoughts, feelings all focused on her, not a fun place to be.
