Wii, you know on my drive home today I was thinking about what you said a few days ago about my fantasy/insecurity that STBXW is having fun and out with guys etc? and you said she's probably hurting and stuff like I am? I wanted to ask you if you think that's also true in your case too? Do you think your stbxw feels the pain and is/was hurting too? If so why do you think they'll stay on the course of separation/divorce despite all the hurt?
Since you read books and stuff...you gotta have some good theories that maybe helpful to hear.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
