No. Don't be blunt, leave the door open. Have him text you and email you constantly. :-)
haha. not funny, steady. i got a text msg at 9:28 pm - "where did ya disappear to?" still ignoring. how long can i keep ignoring this guy?
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So not being 'mean' put you in a position where he doesn't respect your feelings. See how they went backwards?
but i like being nice. i just don't like clingy guys who lie about who they really are, just to get attention.
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Only insecure people need to ask what someone thinks of them.
i didn't ask him what he thought of me. he volunteered that information himself.
and i didn't care to offer my thoughts on him because if you have nothing good to say, it's best to say nothing at all.
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lol @ broad. "I don't dream of men."
glad you got a good laugh at that one. i didn't know what to say!
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Red flag - when a guy brags about himself he has emotional problems like a lack of confidence. Confident people don't talk about their confidence. They just exude it. They know they are so they don't need to point it out.
take note guys.
confidence is attractive. but when you are vocal about it, it's arrogant.
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I read what you wrote and I feel different. I'm not going to dress to impress. I'm going to dress like I normally do. Why? Because if I put on a show, then 6 months later start becoming 'myself' she's going to sit there and say, "You used to dress much better." So she fell for the show and not the real me.
if you were interested in your lady, you would make the effort. i guess that's what i was getting at. if you weren't interested, you'd bei knew right off the bat, he was very interested in me. so why didn't he make an effort? come to think of it, maybe that *was* his way of making an effort. yeesh.
being yourself is the way to be - eventually. not on the first meet.
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Think about this - where do you think your M would be if you were absolutely authentic the whole time? No buried feelings, no going along so you don't make waves, no accepting a R below the kind of standards you wanted.
i think my m would have been over a long time ago. but now, i wouldn't want to settle for less.
