Wondering about packing other stuff, the stuff asked for I'll put out.

Power display, 12 people, 7 cars, video camera (which I gave to her when she asked for it a few weeks prior) rummaging through the house. 2 guys were off duty cops, along with 6 park rangers in their work clothes (not uniforms but advertising their agency) Attorneys agreed any "community property" stay behind to be settled later. That was dismissed by the group and things were just going.

A friend of mine called the police when her Dad got in my face about wanting to take back his couch he "loaned us" back in 2002 that we have refinished back in 2004.

We've never been physical. I can recall twice in 13 years raising my voice or vice versa.