I'm not sitting here pouting about it believe me...I'm just saying that it seems like we come third..and that would make me come kinda last in h's mind. in the end does it matter?
This is all the more reason why you have to get out and get a life. Yeah I know - the kids - but just take baby-steps towards something. You should not be waiting around for him to get round to you. Men just don't, they put all the effort in when there is a crisis and then just sit back and think "Our M is OK, don't need to worry about that". Remember they cannot concentrate on more than one thing at a time.
BTW I think there has been some research done about men and football, how it reaches their emotions in ways other things don't. It is their only real manly emotional outlet, they get to yell, cry, scream, etc in a way they can't normally get away with so in the end it's good for them and keeps them on the level. And they get to do that guy bonding thing.
whatever
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
