My 17,000th Post

[ShockedOne]

Puppy,
I mentioned the 2B approach if we cannot confirm an EA or PA..
Not sure if you agree or disagree on that.

I think you have to use 2b if there is no confirmation of an affair. If you can not prove an affair, how can you bust what may not be there?

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Puppy,
I mentioned the 2B approach if we cannot confirm an EA or PA..
Not sure if you agree or disagree on that.

I think 2B is always a great option. it WORKS.

Puppy

[futureunknown]

2B it is the only thing that came close to working for me.

Puppy, congrats on your milestone, and thanks for all your advice in my sitch. I am in awe of how devoted you are to this forum.

[A_goodman]

Puppy,

I have to echoe FutureUK's sentiment. It is amazing when you find people in life who're willing to take some of their valuable time and devote it solely to the work of helping other people. Especially when they're not some sort of saintly, unapproachable goody-two-shoes. I prefer my love tough, and my advisors to be cigar-chomping, go-getters who are just as willing to smack me in the head when I need it as they are to show compassion and understanding when I need that.

Kind of reminds me of an old quote. "What you are is God's gift to you. What you make of yourself is your gift to God." I think the old man is smiling on your milestone.

So, for me personally, thank you for the help and wise council.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Hey, wait a minute . . .who says that St. Peter doesn't enjoy a good stogie every now and then? C'mon, these guys were FISHERMEN, baby!! lol

Hey, thanks for the nice post, Goodman. I just try to help others avoid some of my own stupid mistakes. If everyone left after they reconciled, the board wouldn't be nearly as useful.

Puppy

[LRT Land]

2B seems to be helping my M (I've found no evidence of PA - possible long-distance EA but I suspect the feelings are more one-sided and not coming from my H).

Puppy - you are amazing. You must have so much good karma at this point the rest of your life should be smooth sailing.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Puppy - you are amazing. You must have so much good karma at this point the rest of your life should be smooth sailing.

Ha!!! I wish.

Seriously, we are still experiencing acute financial problems, facing possible foreclosure, declining health of parents, and still struggle with the SSM thing. The birth of our beautiful little baby granddaughter has helped take our minds off of the other struggles.

In fact, if anyone in so inclined, I will gratefully accept your PRAYERS.

Thanks, LRT, and -- in advance -- all.

Puppy

[DanF]

I'm saying a prayer for you now Puppy. You have helped me so much that it is the very LEAST I can do for you and your family.

God be with you and yours.

[Coach]

In fact, if anyone in so inclined, I will gratefully accept your PRAYERS.

I pray for my DB "peeps" everyday. You can handle it, Puppy.

Strength and Honor

Coach

[LRT Land]

Will keep you in my prayers.