My wife did not get a card or gift from me for her birthday. She is 52 years old and a very attrative woman. She is in the midlife crisis mode with new hairdo, new clothes, new look, going to be a student again. It is like she is a teenager out of control. She still wants to know when I plan to leave the house. She has not seen my anger but the intensity is building. I try to be positive and upbeat and the lawyers have not completed a settlement agreement yet. I have been nothing but genuine kind and loving over a span of 30 years. I do not need to be treated this way. In a way it maybe good to separate because it is only then that you realize what you had. Tomorrow is another day. Bobby O
