Has he given you ANY indication that he's gonig to do anyting OTHER than divorce?
Up until 5 weeks ago, we was spewing that he was trying to figure out HOW we get divorced. Since then and up until when I spoke to him last (Sunday, 7/18), he has not mentioned divorce. In addition, he never contacted me without me asking him to call me first. Now he has called me and tried to contact me without any proding or inquiry from me. I have to admit, I would like to know what he REALLY wants. But I cannot allow myself to be pulled into his DRAMA when his is still talking and befriending the OW.
QS, you are so right. He has considered himself the victim and has never openly admitted fault with the downfall of the M. I am trying NOT to listen (getting better at it every day), but it is almost as if he believes his own BS!!
Why is he calling me? His emails seemed urgent today like he is concerned because he "has not spoken with me for a long time." I think he could be feeling guilty or lonely because he KNOWS I have always been there for him, when he was upset, sad, lonely, and needed someone to talk to...
Last edited by ShellDoll; 07/28/1001:00 AM.
Me 41/H 49 M 12yrs No Kids Bomb 1/10/2010 H Deployed The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison
