If they are involved in an affair, they will lie to you, and basically do ANYTHING to look like they are NOT the bad guy.
They RATIONALIZE what they are doing.
If you want EVEN A CHANCE, then you have to blow this thing OUT OF THE WATER.
If he is THAT COMMITTED to having an affair or ROMANTIC ADDICTION, then he will continue onto someone else. See MY posts for that. My wife has gone 2 GUYS ALREADY, and is working on her THIRD. But at least I am not "playing nice" and HOPING for a "fair chance" like she said she'd give me 2 months ago.
THEN YOU WILL KNOW FOR SURE.
Right now according to her and her friends:
I am a monster
I am psycho
I am "desperately clinging on"
I am "sad"
YADA YADA YADA!!!
But GUESS WHO IS MOVING IN WITH A 24 YEAR OLD IMMATURE COWORKER WHO CANT EVEN PAY HALF THE RENT,THINKING SHE CAN GET HIM TO DATE HER AND SLEEP WITH HER NOW THAT THEY WILL BE ROOMATES????
Who's sad now?
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
