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For her (and probably most women) they gain the physical bond after the emotional intimacy-


So maybe she didn't let herself feel the emotional intimacy in order to be physical....right? And I could be waaaaay off,so I will butt out now! smile


Just had a random thought--if men establish emotional intimacy AFTER the physical bond, then could that be why we hear of men who do the deed and leave right after...like they don't want to get close? "Sex and Love--Gotta keep 'em separated!"

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004