Spends an hour chatting with the younger guy about this and that. Nothing serious.
So he gets offline and what does she do? She searches for:
"How to attract a guy"
"How to date my roommate"
"How To Attract Men"
"How to attract a roommate"
"Hooking Up with Roommates"
"How to date a younger guy"
ARE YOU SERIOUS. HAHAHAHAHA. All that bluster to family and friends, and she is SERIOUSLY - WANTING TO DATE HIM - AFTER SHE MOVES IN WITH HIM.
WOW. She honestly THINKS that he is going to move in, and they are going to magically hit it off? Sure they have things in common, but she REALLY THINKS that this is going to work??? I mean it was a YEAR before I moved in with her. A YEAR. And now she is locked into a lease with the HOPE that he will 1) respond to her, and 2) they won't end up cheating or screwing each other over.
I'm speechless at the utter stupidity of this woman. What the Hell would I have done if we ever had kids together? They would be so screwed up it would be a crime.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
Man, that post made the hair on the back of my neck stand up, QS. It was May 26th, 2007, that I got an e-mail on my Blackberry while out of town visiting my family, from my eBlaster keylogger. Her searches?
"older women younger men"
"how to attract a younger man"
"sexual positions"
I had suspected for about two weeks, but that was the night I knew, and later that night I did the "I know all about you and _______ " confrontation of my wife by phone, and called both of my adult daughters (then 18 and 20) to expose to them.
I hope you're printing screenshots of this stuff, and saving it somewhere safe.
Hey QS. Check out LauraOh's thread, her husband's a porn addict and she wants to know how to track his history ... He's cleaning his PC after use like a Black Ops mission lol
Let me ask this QS... Before your wife went all squirrelly.. what was her maturity level then?
MOST of the time, she was FAIRLY mature. She has a HORRIBLE temper though, and can REALLY act out VINDICTIVELY. She evolved over the years, but such a stressful situation as this has caused her to de-volve.
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Is this a symptom of waywardness here or is she really just that underdeveloped emotionally?
I think it is waywardness, unrealistic expectations, and her reaching her sexual peak. She sees this younger guy as a way to unleash her prowess on a person less mature and less experienced than her. She was barely sexually experienced when we met, and was a little prudish. NOW, she is all Hellbent on becoming a tigress. And because she is "done" with the marriage, in her mind she is "on the market" again and wants to have as much "fun" as possible. She sees having this fun as a way to "catch" a guy, and then be able to reel him into a relationship.
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Was she always this childish?
She was always just "romantic" and "idealistic". She lived a very sheltered teenage life, and when we were first dating she was all happy-lala. I think she is longing to feel that way again, and her pursuing other guys so relentlessly is giving her that feeling, as well as control.
All in all this is because she is "done" with the marriage, and wants to "move on". This is the THIRD GUY she has done these TYPES of searches for.
She is moving from one to the next. First it was a married guy with similar marital problems as her. Next is was the Facebook guy and "i wish i could be in your bed right now"; "as soon as i found out you were single i wanted to date you". Now it is a young coworker who she is LURING to move in with her and searching "hooking up with your roommate" and "how to date your roommate".
And yes, she LOVES Disney and romantic movies, so I am guessing that she thinks that this will all works out in the end.
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I hope you're printing screenshots of this stuff, and saving it somewhere safe.
Already backed up EVERYTHING into a TrueCrypt container drive encrypted with AES/Blowfish. It's a regular field day in that drive it is....
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Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
OK, she clearly wasn't emotionally developed then... She has a way to go still...
I think you KNOW this is not going to work out how she planned... She is not snow white and there is no price charming... Just people of varying maturity levels all in the same bucket of dirt...
Disney films are not healthy for adults who haven't developed emotionally... They celebrate the romantic ideal... and marriage can't compare to that... nothing REAL CAN.
She's got a definite pattern here... Romantic escapism, etc. Any sex she might end up having isnt' going to turn out how she expected either... She may even end up with an STD...
You said this guy just bought a car he can't afford...
He can't afford his car and NOW he's taking on half a RENTAL as well?
Very mature indeed...
Your wife may say she wants "fun", but one thing I am noticing dude is that she only pursues ONE GUY at a TIME...
This is NOT sexual addiction. It's romantic addiction. She' IS monogamous in her escapism... She can't allow herself to be promiscuous... from what I have gathered at least...
This means she will expect this guy to be fully committed to her... Did she even ASK him if he's dating anyone?
If she moves in with him and he starts dating someone ELSE do you REALLY think that is gonna run smooth?
SHe's going to be calling his cell during the date... and when the woman he IS dating finds out he's LIVING with a married woman she's going to drop him... lol
Life lesson : You cant move in with a woman and expect to "date" elsewhere... It's a bomb waiting to go off...
He can't afford his car and NOW he's taking on half a RENTAL as well?
No not HALF. Only about 38%. Lets say the rent is 1000 per month, and the utilities are about 300. That's 1300.
She is ONLY making him pay 400$ total. That's all he can AFFORD.
So she is "bribing" and "enticing" him (unknowingly to HIM) to move in to a 2 bedroom apartment.
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but one thing I am noticing dude is that she only pursues ONE GUY at a TIME...
That is true, and it DOES NOT TAKE LONG in between pursuing guys. Within DAYS of me exposing the Facebook guy and him telling my wife not to contact him, she was messaging friends that she was interested in this new younger guy.
They now talk on Facebook almost every night. She asks him about what shows and movies he likes, tells him that that can play Wii together, watch football ect.
She is reading these "hot to attract a guy" websites and using the playbooks from THEM. HAHAHAHAHAHAH. She is so desparate and pathetic she has to go after a 24 year old and READ WEBSITES for information, AND THEN BRIBE HIM pretending to be his "friend". BRIBE HIM.
She was really needy and clingy at the beginning of us, so I am now not surprised at this. She claims to have found all this "strength", yet she is flailing about looking for a man to grab onto. And apparently he is so "yummy" that she can't resist SIGNING A 1 YEAR LEASE, BRIBING HIM, and RISKING HER JOB WITH AN INTEROFFICE ROMANCE.
Yes my situation still SUCKS ROYALLY. I am still hurt, and it is going to SUCK EVEN MORE if/when these 2 have sex. But she is headed off a cliff, and I just have to stand by and watch.
I wonder what her mom is going to say when she finds out these 2 are living together, having sex and/or dating?
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Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
Qs what are you doing to prepare for your wife's moving out?
Do you have a dry storage bin rented? Do you have six guys ready to toss her stuff into a truck and cart it away?
I have seen people fall APART on this forum while their wife showed up to move out and the wife MILKED it for every ounce of pain they could squeeze from it.
You do NOT want to HIDe when she moves out since she may take something yo don't want her taking...
You do NOT want to BE there and watch HER pack and carry things out either...
MOve for her.. its your best choice there man...
Just wait til she goes away on her trip and move her out...
if she's still living there leave her a cot in the corner and a small reading lamp with a 15 watt bulb
