I think my H would NEVER speak to me again if I exposed his affair to the military or his commanding officer. He would go on the attack and say I was evil because I was destroying his career. He would never say another word to me and will file for a D.
I feel so trapped by this situation. While I hope that we can work it out, I saw my IC today and she question why I am not answering calls from my H or addressing his emails to me. She knows I would like my M to work out and believes the hard line I am taking could be confirming my H's desire to divorce if I do not answer his calls. She says he is now reaching out and apparently wants to talk especially since he has called me every day for the last 4 days and emailed me numerous times.
My H called me again twice today at work and sent two emails to me. Well I have been thinking more and more over the last day about how BADLY he treated me after he was the one that HAD the affair. He made me out to be the worst person and I am sure that is how he coached it to the the OW.
If I expose, how do I do it and when?
Me 41/H 49 M 12yrs No Kids Bomb 1/10/2010 H Deployed The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison
