Cathy,

points well taken! facts are that I don't really mind h's interest in football (he's got a closet and man's room full of "his" teams paraphanalia purchased mostly by me to prove it) or work. What I do however mind is the fact that those things are always important, first, worth the effort, worth the energy, worth staying awake for.

I'm not sitting here pouting about it believe me...I'm just saying that it seems like we come third..and that would make me come kinda last in h's mind. in the end does it matter?

proof that I haven't pouted about it at all...

h has called at least 4 times today including a call in the middle of this post...just to say hello and let me know where they are and what is going on.

don't know when he'll be home...if he has more plowing to do after the game or if he's comming right home..don't plan to wait to find out..plan to find something good on tv, light a fire, open a bottle of wine (the light stuff) and maybe make myself some spinach & artichoke dip..put the kids to bed early and relax.

LL