Qs what are you doing to prepare for your wife's moving out?
Do you have a dry storage bin rented? Do you have six guys ready to toss her stuff into a truck and cart it away?
I have seen people fall APART on this forum while their wife showed up to move out and the wife MILKED it for every ounce of pain they could squeeze from it.
You do NOT want to HIDe when she moves out since she may take something yo don't want her taking...
You do NOT want to BE there and watch HER pack and carry things out either...
MOve for her.. its your best choice there man...
Just wait til she goes away on her trip and move her out...
if she's still living there leave her a cot in the corner and a small reading lamp with a 15 watt bulb
