Quote: but first I'll just put this out there as it's something that always seems to bug me...yes it's football...doesn't matter how tired or busy h is..he always finds the time for his football...as a season ticket holder he's got txts to this afternoons (4:15) game...he's been out plowing since yesterday morning (came home briefly from 7-11) I would have thought he'd be either 1. too tired to go to the game or 2. still too busy plowing to go to the game...however...as of last night his intentions were to have an employee take care of his route so he could go to the game??? huh? too tired to give a little lovin to your w? too tired to stay awake and spend some qt with your w..but not to tired or busy to drive 2 hours to sit in a parking lot and then sit in a staduim watching a bunch of guys in tight pants run around after a ball? huh?
First off, have you asked H what it is about football that he likes, how it makes him feel..just wondering.
Would you rather he be a football player? Can you imagine what those wives have to live with every day of their lives? How they have to attend the games with all the other wives and can you imagine the competition, the gossip, the cattiness. Your H has his one day a week for football and the season is coming to a close. For the players it's their lives, I'm sure they are gone a lot more than H is and if they have children, the responsibility of the children more than likely is on the shoulders of the wives!
Isn't it lot easier to deal with football as the OW? Oh I know you don't want either, but you might have to accept it and get going girl!!! There's lots to do out there besides shovel.
