punkin, The OW is trying to get your H to commit to her by exposing early so he has to choose to be with her. Chances are she has done this before.....that is go after a married man. She wants to solidify the R with him before he finds out her true colors. She is afraid that after he really gets to know her he is not going to like what he has and will come running back to you. He will eventually figure this out.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
