What is pathetic, I actually thought about making up something tonight, to avoid "confrontation" but it needs to be the truth, who I am going to hang out with and the fact he wants to talk to me about his wedding, hell he might be asking me to be his best man and I have a bachelor party to prepare. EIther way I will tell her the truth.
Since I was quite quick to jump on you for lying, I want to be equally as public telling you that you're doing a really good job on this. That you thought about it is HUGE. That you made the conscious decision to do the right thing in spite of the personal fallout/negativity it might bring on you is not pathetic, it's strong. Whatever her reaction is, it's totally on her; you've done the right thing.
