Bo Peep doesn't work, especially with an affair involved. It takes incredible strength to take a tough love stance (affair busting) or courage to let them go, but these are the only way. The tricky bit is sticking to your guns, and remaining civil and gracious during the most painful time in your life. I failed that. Hysterical does not bring a wayward back home.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
