I agree your H is still in replay. He is starting to see what he has done. The realization could send him into depression or it could send him into more replay. This could just be normal cycling behavior with in replay.
I think we've been here before back in the winter. He got real depressed, started to break away from her and she sucked him back in. That's why I'm more encouraged this time. He seems to be finally getting it. He says he knows he has to be free of her to deal with the MLC, but , hey he's in MLC...who knows what he is really thinking/doing!
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He will need to go thru OW withdrawal which could take awhile. There may be multiple break-ups. Stay out of this! Otherwise, the bouncing back and forth is bad.
I hear you. I want to be sure he's really done before I do anything! It's hard not to hope it is the beginning of a new phase.....without her. He is reconnecting with his best friend this weekend, who has been firm that he doesn't approve of this and his brother in 2 weeks who has also taken the same stand with H. He has been avoiding them before this. Also made the supreme effort to see D for her birthday, which he hasn't done that much(seen her that is)Is that signs of moving out of replay?
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Stay your course for the moment. Let OW apply all the pressure.
