The issue I have with our home is that he bought it originally when we first moved in together. He never (and I never asked) that my name be added to the deed. That is why he pays the mortgage.
Have you checked into this, and confirmed it? What state are you in?
Depending on the state (mine -- FL -- is a "community property" state, and our home, that I closed on the day before we got married, became half hers the moment we married), you may or may not have a real interest in the home, regardless.
Worth looking into.
Puppy
In am in VA. It is a community property state. But my H (at least prior to him deploying was very adamant that I would have to move out if we D.
Originally Posted By: Allen A
Another question SD, I had to ask it, but it needs to be asked.
Is there any risk that your H may react violently?
In many cases here after exposure the LBS will post here saying things like "I have NEVER seen him that ANGRY... He was a completely different person."
I don't recall any actual violence coming from exposure but I would like to confirm with others.
Particularly given He will be back in three months and you share a home its very important that you think this through...
You COULD have a friend stay with you for the three months and have them stay there upon his return as well.
My H has never been violent or raised a hand to me at anytime.
Me 41/H 49 M 12yrs No Kids Bomb 1/10/2010 H Deployed The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison
