Was just reading Puppy's 17,000th post thread and it talks about the Bo-peep philosophy and how A's won't end until they are busted. Makes sense to me, but how do I approach this sitch?
I found out that my W was having an EA/PA in mid-May. OM's wife told me. When I asked her about it, she said it was nothing and they didn't talk that much. So, I pulled her phone records and busted her on it. Much more phoning and texting than she admitted to. She said it would stop, but she just started calling from a different phone. I kept in touch with OMW and we figured it out and I busted her on that too. She then filed for D. Not sure if it was because I busted her or for other reasons.
I'm still in touch with OMW. OM now has OW2 and supposedly W is very hurt and very mad at him.
Just got a note from OMW that said OM committed to his phone minutes being down this month, but they are not. She thinks W is still taking to OM, but doesn't see the numbers from the incoming calls. Could also be OW2.
Since W has filed, and it is her personal cell phone account, I have not looked at the phone bills. She destroys or hides them immediately. If she IS still talking to OM, do I need to bust this again, or doesn't it matter since she has filed and I am GAL? Do I just consider us D already and leave it alone, or should I investigate more?
