I followed the "Bo-Peep" method....IE don't gather any independent intel.
depends on what independent intel is. is hiring a PI the best way to go?
sorry. i am not going to hijack this thread.
thanks puppy
"It's not a hijack, Your Honor -- the Prosecution opened up this line of questioning with his opening post!"
"Sustained."
So, what's your question, MIL? Is hiring a PI the best way to go? Always, if you can afford it, but there are a LOT of other, more affordable ways. What I mean when I say "independent," is that most people's idea of "verifying" is to ASK THEIR ALLEGEDLY-CHEATING SPOUSE. And the problem with that is:
- If they aren't cheating, they will say there is no one else.
- If they ARE cheating, they will say there is no one else.
Good luck with THAT.
No, "independent" verification includes keylogger, voice-activated recorder, cellphone detailed billing invoices, looking at cellphone text message content, GPS on their car, etc.