Hmmm... H took cash out of the ATM today. I noticed he did that another time recently. Typically we don't use ATMs and just use our debit cards. He truly doesn't need cash very much... Now, there could be an acceptable reason for it but of course, under the circumstances, my mind gets away from me. What does he want to spend money on that he doesn't want me seeing the purchase online???

Yeah - I know I'm not supposed to worry about that stuff right now. Doesn't mean it doesn't get to me, esp. with him being late last night and his behavior even more detached than usual this week. At lease before he made an attempt to connect somehow. Now, we might as well be in different houses. I guess it's because of his feelings towards the upcoming weekend.